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Southward ome years ago, Brusque Smith, the vocalist and songwriter best known as one one-half of Tears for Fears, found himself in Vancouver. He was filming 1 of several invitee spots he made on the U.s. TV detective series Psych, and after work that day he joined the remainder of the cast at a local karaoke bar.
There, before the stage, Smith was struck by the idea to get up and sing ane of his band's most famous hits, 1985'due south U.k. platinum-selling Everybody Wants to Rule the World. How hilarious it would be, he thought, when people clocked that he was the actual singer of the song. "And no one paid a bullheaded flake of attention," he says at present. "No one! They didn't realise information technology was me."
Meanwhile, back in England, Smith'due south bandmate Roland Orzabal had received an invitation to audition for the reality TV show Popstar to Operastar. Orzabal, who had sung opera in the past, felt the stars were aligning. "I'm thinking: 'This was meant for me.'" he says. He took the audience seriously, practised diligently, sought out an opera coach near his dwelling house in the West Country. "I went in there and I fucking nailed it," he recalls of his functioning of Giordani'southward Caro Mio Ben in a suite at the Savoy hotel that winter. "And they didn't enquire me. Midge Ure got it."
The life of the "semi-retired" musician is a strange one, Smith reflects. "You nonetheless write music, simply yous practice other things. I was very much the stay-at-home dad, because my wife [the marketing executive Frances Pennington] has a career and is very busy." With piddling in his Los Angeles home to suggest a successful career in music – no gold discs on the walls, or awards on the mantelpiece – Smith realised that, while he might not need such reminders to know who he was, his identity was mysterious to his children. One day at preschool, his eldest girl was asked what her parents did. "Her answer was: 'Mama goes to the office and Papa goes to the gym.'"
With the demands of family, acting, opera and gym workouts, not to mention management disputes and periods of acrimony between the pair, somehow 17 years take passed since Tears for Fears last recorded an album together. Today, though, they sit in the small, starkly lit boardroom of a Marylebone hotel, two radiant sixty-year-olds eager to talk about their new fabric. The Tipping Betoken is a stunning record, taking in fine-fledged folk guitar and aggressive synthesisers, and encompassing loss, resentment, the Mistral wind of southern France, the healing that has taken identify betwixt them; plus the patriarchy, the pandemic and the Black Lives Matter protests.
Tears for Fears were teenagers when they met in Bath, bonding over a beloved of Blue Öyster Cult, and recording every bit the modern-leaning Graduate before forming a synth-led band with a name inspired past the work of the central therapist Arthur Janov. They released their first unmarried, Endure the Children, in 1981. Early on on they were sometimes mocked for their willingness to speak virtually such broad-ranging subject matter every bit emotional issues, mental health and gender imbalance. "When nosotros came out with Woman in Bondage, I call back a lot of our peers who were hanging out at the Groucho Club were like: 'What the fuck?'" says Orzabal.
"We came from an era where immature men should be seen and not heard," Smith says. "It was a lot of: 'Who are yous to be talking about these subjects? You're too young to empathize these things!' And in all honesty we didn't know enough, but we weren't shy to voice our opinions. That was the deviation between us and a lot of people of that era."
"I think when you're making that transition from childhood into adulthood and you're leaving a lot of things behind, the globe is a scary place," Orzabal continues. "Nosotros'd previously been in a very lightweight mod band together, and then both of us had embraced Janov's primal theory, and we discovered what we do best: stick out some messages, subconscious, cleverly, in a whole bunch of electronica. And and then we were off, because we had something to say."
Three albums – The Hurting, Songs from the Big Chair, and The Seeds of Beloved – sold a reported 30m copies. Then, in 1991, the pair fell out, breaking up the ring to pursue solo careers. In 2004, a thaw led to a new album, Everybody Loves a Happy Ending, but sales were not as hoped. "It went straight on the Radio two A list," Orzabal remembers. "And we did American TV. But when we looked at the record sales, the tape that was selling was the greatest hits."
Still, the band toured widely, sidestepping 80s-revival shows ("We've turned it downwardly every time," says Smith, "considering we don't consider ourselves from a decade"), and releasing covers of contemporary songs past the likes of Hot Chip, Fauna Commonage and Arcade Fire, merely there seemed little appetite for new material. Their then-director encouraged the status quo, says Orzabal. "'Do y'all really demand to put out another record? You're ever going to be a heritage act, you lot've got these archetype songs, don't worry virtually it, let'due south go on to tour.'"
"Night after nighttime," Smith continues. "After a bunch of years nosotros're like: 'It'south getting a bit ho-hum now.' I tin can't put my heart into it that much more than unless nosotros have something fresh to say, do or play."
Meanwhile, something interesting was happening: Mad World had already been covered by Gary Jules and Michael Andrew on the cult 2001 film Donnie Darko, and now younger artists such as Lorde, the 1975, Kanye Due west and the Weeknd were citing Tears for Fears as an influence. The ring's live show shifted accordingly, ramping upwards the tempo and the gimmicky covers. "Word spread among the promoters – 'These guys are good, you want them on the show' – so we got more and more invites," says Orzabal.
There followed a co-headline tour with Hall and Oates, a Royal Albert Hall show and a Radio 2 special. "That was the tipping bespeak, because [until and then] people liked our music, but they didn't know whether we could play, or whether nosotros were just two guys and a synthesiser," says Orzabal. When they sold out the O2, Smith recalls with a smile, "it was: 'Hang on – what's going on? We're dorsum in fashion!'"
But the upturn in the band'southward career coincided with difficulties for Orzabal. In the summertime of 2017, his wife Caroline – his partner since they were teenagers – died. He talks about her with a kind of tender openness that seems quite at odds with a newspaper interview. In 2007, he says, Caroline hit menopause. "And then the wheels came off, and she went from beingness extremely feisty and spirited and up, and and then charismatic, to hitting low. And menopause was probably a smokescreen."
Caroline was prescribed medication, the kind you are non meant to beverage while taking. She continued to do so anyway, entering a wheel of increased mental ache and suicidal ideation. Orzabal laments the treatment of depression with pills. "There should be existent strict controls on what people are dealing with."
Plus, he says, his wife was adept at hiding the truth of her condition. "Caroline was a piddling bit lax and naughty when she would see doctors. She wouldn't exist 100% honest, she would talk about menopause: she would talk well-nigh empty nest syndrome – that became the side by side one, and it wasn't that at all. It was a number of things. And it was her liver, cirrhosis, and that was a long time coming."
Caroline never stopped drinking. "Which is partly my fault considering I'k a drinker, too. If I'd known that was the reason …" He trails off. "Merely I didn't. I don't know how usually known it is that alcohol is far more unsafe for a woman than it is for a man, and the problem was Caroline used to match me. Merely again, that's my ain ignorance and stupidity at what was going on, because at that point in time there should have been no alcohol anywhere, that's a fact."
She adult booze-related dementia. "So it was five years of hell where I became her carer," says Orzabal. "I had a care company also to take the weight off me, and there we were in our large country house in the W Country with an increasingly shrinking circle of friends and it was pretty harrowing." He lets out a long breath, and the three of us sit, moisture-eyed effectually the boardroom table.
It was while Caroline was ill that Orzabal began to write several of the songs that announced on The Tipping Point. "I needed some respite from the constant disease, the abiding dysfunction, and as per usual, as I've always done all my life, they went into lyrics and songs," he says.
The song Please Be Happy was "inspired by watching someone you love sitting in a chair all 24-hour interval, not doing annihilation, not moving, and when she does, she goes up the stairs with a glass of wine, and [the glass] crashes on the stairs". The championship runway recalls sitting in Caroline's hospital room, "looking at someone and waiting for the point when they are more expressionless than alive".
The year that followed Caroline's death, Orzabal suffered his ain health issues, spent time in rehab and postponed the band's world bout. "I was going through hell," he says. Smith, fearing he might exacerbate his bandmate's problems, kept his distance.
"I knew Roland wasn't in a healthy place, and I felt it was important that he got well more than anything else," he says. Over the years, the pair had grown accepted to periods of intense creative connection, followed by "butting heads", and extended time apart. They draw the shape of their human relationship every bit "this helix thing".
But in the depths of it all, Orzabal had a revelation: "I thought that was it, because Caroline had gone, [longtime Tears for Fears collaborator] Alan Griffiths was gone, and immediately my mind went to Curt. That's when I idea: 'This guy's really important.' It was obvious – it's really obvious to a lot of people – but then all of a sudden you call back: 'Oh no, this partnership is right, nosotros've done bang-up things.' And the story's non over – thank God!"
Orzabal'due south new beloved, now wife, the writer and photographer Emily Rath, encouraged a reconciliation. "She is an amazing influence – teaching me how to be kind and polite, and not hostile all the time." he says. In early on 2020, he messaged Smith and the pair had lunch in Los Angeles. "It was like: what's our trouble? We don't really take ane. So I went circular to Brusque's place with an acoustic guitar and we went straight back to being eighteen-year-old kids. Curt came up with this riff, No Small Affair, and we were off. So that was the key that unlocked the anthology."
Seventeen years afterward their last record – an anthology primarily about their reunion – Orzabal feels The Tipping Bespeak is a different brute, a coming home to the band's true way of writing. "When yous beginning doing that again the energies, the supportive waters, starting time conveying you, and information technology'due south like: 'Wow, this is amazing.' Simply the songs nosotros accept now connect the personal and the political; songs which can be interpreted on an private basis and interpreted on a collective basis. That'southward what – if there is a God – that's what God put us on the Earth to exercise."
In late September, Smith and Orzabal walked on to the stage at the Ivor Novello awards in London to a continuing ovation. In that location to receive the Outstanding Song Drove honor, Smith hung back while Orzabal took the microphone, joked most Bathroom Spa Waitrose, thanked their wives, their new management and new label. "Lastly," he said, looking out over the audition, "I'd similar to thank ii people without whom we only wouldn't be here." He paused, and glanced toward Smith: "Us."
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Tears for Fears' single The Tipping Point is out now. The album follows in February 2022.
Source: https://www.theguardian.com/music/2021/oct/08/tears-for-fears-reunion-interview
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